Resolved Question: Freaking out about a job
My hubby has been out of work and looking for a job. He travelled to Chicago for one there a couple of time but they are slow in making a decision. Now the extremely crappy part! He got an offer for one near Kansas City. God help me but I am sure it is fine for some people but it just seems boring which is not me. what the frig do we do? We are going for a visit next week but I am sick to my stomach. I dont want to move there and it is less money than his old job. Should he try to tell them eventually we will move, take the job and still keep looking? It is outside his industry. Help!! Why is everyone coming down on me for being faced with a life altering thing. You have no clue what our situation is. He travels alot and we have kids so to me it would not make sense to work just to cover childcare. The kids would be faced with hardly any time with either parent. Is that a good situation? Sandra they are not lame. Do you have kids? It's not like he has a 9 to 5 job then fine. You also have to way the financial cost of providing care for them. I would be faced with that then coming home and basically being a single parent.
Posted on 30 January 2013 | 2:50 am
Open Question: Hubby got another woman
We've been married 26 years and separated since around Thanksgiving of 2010. We haven't gotten along in some years, but out initial plan was to work it out. He started seeing her in March of 2011, I found out in December 2011. His mother told me out of spite. She has always hated me and knew about the relationship from the beginning. She (the woman) called here looking for him and we got into it. She said she didn't know he was married. He confessed that he still loves me but also has feelings for her. Apparently, she dumped him after finding out about me. She had the baby 5 months ago. My husband and I got into counseling 8 months ago, and things were getting better. He says he still has feelings for the other woman and wants to be a proper father to the baby (I don't allow him to bring the baby around me). He filed for divorce. I love my husband to death and have invested SO MUCH in this relationship. I really don't care that this woman has a child with him, I still want to work things out. What can I do? @ Loving My Life: I'm more angry at the fact that he hid it from me. I was honest with him about when I was sort of seeing another man (I say sort o because I never got physical with this man) @ Loving My Life: And to be honest, I did cheat on him during the 5 years we dated prior to our marriage and he forgave me @ shorty: We only got into it that one time and it was out of shock and anger from both ends. But you're right. I do need to learn to accept his daughter @ Sandra: I actually fully agree with you because one day before he filed, we had a talk and I honestly told him I was highly doubtful of ever accepting the baby
Posted on 7 December 2012 | 2:26 pm
Resolved Question: Good middle name for
Hubby and I are expecting twin girls and I wanted opinions on names.
Here's what we've decided on so far:
Margaret Elizabeth (Meg)
We're having trouble deciding on a middle name for Sandy. Any ideas? I'm thinking Anne or Lee, but wanted to get some opinions. Thanks!
Posted on 9 January 2011 | 11:01 am
Resolved Question: Guys, do you think Sandra
Posted on 28 June 2010 | 5:04 pm
Resolved Question: Is it strange for a
I just saw that Sandy Bullock and her former hubby had a bris for their baby. Her baby now. Anyway, I've never heard of that. Odd? I have to comment on I change my SN and SteveX. Sandra Bullock's baby is black and from New Orleans. We don't have a lot of black Jews. And Steve, she isn't Jewish. Never was. Don't answer if you don't know. Duh.
Posted on 28 April 2010 | 2:11 pm